What is it that the already married man represents to the single woman?
Married Men
You would think that wearing a wedding ring would signal a single female that a man is not available for her attentions. After all, he is a married man who has promised his heart to another. That’s the meaning of the ring. No chance to find happiness here. Time to move on to the next one. Then why is it that the opposite occurs so often?
Let’s take a look at this. What is it that the already married man represents to the single woman?
One. By getting married, a man has shown that he is someone that other women want. A woman has to go through the trial and errors of dating when it comes to a single guy. He might be a great guy, but for the time being, he is an untested product. He might not make a good husband. But with the married man, someone else has already done the work. The one with the ring is certified “husband” material.
Let’s take a look at this. What is it that the already married man represents to the single woman?
One. By getting married, a man has shown that he is someone that other women want. A woman has to go through the trial and errors of dating when it comes to a single guy. He might be a great guy, but for the time being, he is an untested product. He might not make a good husband. But with the married man, someone else has already done the work. The one with the ring is certified “husband” material.
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Two. If a woman wants to date a “nice guy” but does not want the pressure of the guy falling for her, a married man is preferred. To what extent and for how long the dating of a single guy continues, depends on how long it remains non-committal. Once they become too close, the woman would have to dump the guy, which usually turns out to be messy. Some guys might even be stalkers, but let’s not go there. But with a married guy, there’s a lot less chance of the separation being crazy. After all, if the guy already has marital obligations, he doesn’t wish to complicate things with an unpleasant breakup.
Three. Then there’s the inevitable excitement that goes along with cheating, and not just for the guy. The chance of getting caught adds an element to the relationship similar to blindly crossing the street. You never know when you might get run into, and your life might be forever changed. This living-on-the-edge type of thrill usually doesn’t last long because it’s so damn
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Last but not least is the most complicated scenario. That’s when the woman seeks out the married man and then wants him for her very own. She expects that she is better for the guy than his wife. He should divorce his present wife and then make the single woman his new bride. The woman seeking the married man is determined to blind herself on the most critical issue presented. The “great catch” has already proven that you can’t trust him around single women, and he will lie and be deceptive while he is married.
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Sadly, this woman believes that she is unique, and the same situation could never happen to her. Most times, history repeats itself because leopards cannot change their spots. The man will cheat again, and the cycle goes on.
Whether the reason the single woman continues to walk in the direction of the married man, is confusion or one of passion, the result is usually the same. There might not be a broken heart, but there is always a trail of lies. Making a promise means being true to your word. Even if the single woman doesn’t understand this (which I doubt), the married guy who took the marital pledge certainly does. Remember this, next time you glance across that crowded room and think you’ve found that special someone.
Whether the reason the single woman continues to walk in the direction of the married man, is confusion or one of passion, the result is usually the same. There might not be a broken heart, but there is always a trail of lies. Making a promise means being true to your word. Even if the single woman doesn’t understand this (which I doubt), the married guy who took the marital pledge certainly does. Remember this, next time you glance across that crowded room and think you’ve found that special someone.
